Using Words To Romance

By incorporating more romance in your life, your relationship will blossom into something that you never knew existed. In October we showed you how to use gift giving to your advantage. In November, we gave you the secrets of romance. During the month of December we gave you the steps and the secrets to incorporate sensuality into the picture. By now you should know that it is not that hard to be romantic. This month we are going to give you one final lesson from our Book of Romance: The Power of Words.

The Power of Words
The power of words is in their use when it comes to romance. Sure there is telling her that you care, or that she’s wonderful, but it can be more than that. The words “I love you” will be distinctly remembered if said using our methods of communication. Furthermore, we are going to take you through the steps to help you make your special note more romantic. There are many methods of communication but here is a list of our top methods to tell her what you are thinking about her.

Voice Mail
Leaving a message on her answering machine at home, work, or her cell phone is a great way to share your feelings about her. Plus, it allows her to save the message, so she can play it back at a later time.

Total Cost: Free (though long distance charges do apply)

E-Cards
This method of communication allows you to send a picture and a message together. This works exactly like a post card. All you need is a good website. Luckily we were looking out for you and we have free ecards on this site. Click Here to send an ecard.

Total Cost: Free

Instant Text Messaging
A great invention, it allows you to send messages to cell phones no matter where they are. Instant messages can be sent to significant others that are in different locations, cities, and even countries. All you need is your significant other to have text messaging enabled on their PCS phone, then you can use either your cell phone or online messaging software such as ICQ to send romantic messages to them.

Total Cost: Free – If you use an online messaging with SMS. Cell phone time if you use your cell phone.

Cards
Buying her just a card will suffice if you are earlier on in a relationship. What is an added bonus is if you buy her a card and add in your very own home made coupon for something like a free back massage.

Total Cost: 0.99 – $5.99 (Average Cost: $3.50)

Sticky Notes
Those pesky yellow sticky notes are everywhere. Now even you can take advantage of these yellow little pads and write down sweet little nothings on them. Be forewarned that if you use all 100 sticky notes in one day, you may turn her off instead of turn her on. Remember that it’s a friendly and thoughtful reminder to tell her how you feel.

Total Cost: $1.00 for 100 sticky notes (Average Cost: $0.01)

Singing Telegrams
Singing telegrams are a funny way to get your message across. I don’t suggest that you send a stripping telegram to her work, but sending one to a friends place for a birthday party or a simple “I’m Thinking About You” would be appropriate. Note that singing telegrams are subject to available times and you may need to book in advance. Furthermore, you should use one of the other methods if you wish to get your intimate ideas across.

Total Cost: $50.00 – $100 (Average Cost: $75.00)

With Flowers
You want to send the right message when you buy flowers. Here is a helpful reminder of what each type of flower represents:
Anemone–means Beauty     Snapdragons–mean Strength
Carnation–means Joy     Solidago–means Success
Crocus–means Gladness     Sunflower–means Pride
Daffodil–means Respect     Tiger Lily–means Prosperity
Daisy–means Innocence     Tulip–means Luck
Fern–means Grace     Violet–means Virtue
Freesia–means Trust     Wintergreens–mean Harmony
Heather–means Admiration     Wisteria–mean Welcome
Huckleberry–means Faith     Yellow Lily–means Gratitude
Iris–means Promise     Red Rose–means Love or Passion
Lilac–means Beauty     White Rose–means Devotion
Lily–means Devotion     Yellow Rose–means Admiration
Mum–means Hope     Peach Rose–means Thoughtfulness
Orchid–means Thoughtfulness     Pink Rose–means Friendship
Pansy–means Merriment     Lavender Rose–means Virtue
Peony–means Compassion

Total Cost: $10.00-$50.00 (Average Cost: $30.00)

Letters
Why do you want to write a love letter? Love letters are a great way to be romantic, telling your partner how you fell while capturing the intense emotions that bind you to her. For people that are shy, love letters are the perfect way to communicate how you feel and what your desires are.

Total Cost: Free

Poems
There is magic in many poems. Some poems delight us while others enlighten us. I have sent poems to people that have made them cry and others that bring up memories of the past. If done right, poems can even rekindle love and bring two people together once again.

If you are artistic and can write poems to express your feelings then you are in luck. For those who cannot write poetry, I suggest that you visit a database of online poems and find one for your special occasion. Now all you have to do is print it out or email it to her.

Total Cost: Free

Others
Though this is a listing of some methods of conveying your love, it should not end here. There is still the wild and the wacky. I have seem people put messages on billboards, announce them on radio stations, and even ask put messages on a hockey scoreboard. Which ever way you go, remember to think of her and how she makes you feel.

How to Write
When it comes to thinking of things to write, there are three major approaches. You can write about the things you notice about her. Things you should concentrate on are her personality, her hair, and how she looks. It is not a good idea to focus on anything sexual such as her breasts, legs, or butt. Secondly, you can look at how she makes you feel. Tell her that you are thinking about her, that you miss being with her, or that you have the best times when you are with her. Finally, you can go the poetry or love letter route, telling her how you feel while explaining your desires.

Day by day, you should be trying to incorporate some type of romantic gesture when you are around your girlfriend. Using a note is great because it is cheap and it allows you to articulate the message you want to get across very precisely. The best thing about being romantic is that she will brag to her friends about you, and you will be the boyfriend that every girl wants. It is definitely going to be hard to top you isn’t it?!

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