This couple from Sssh.com lay out blankets on their deck to take in some sun on their naked bodies. Seeing each other in the buff though is a bit too much of a temptation and they end up unable to resist tasting each others sun kissed skin among other things. The sexy long haired brunette babe is completely pampered as her handsome man goes down on her, eating her pussy until she’s moaning and panting with delight. After some slow and passionate love making, the two jump into the pool for a perfect way to cool off after such a hot moment.You can’t get porn for women any hotter than this!

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It may not surprise you to know that men’s and women’s sexual fantasies differ greatly (and I am not just talking about the most obvious difference of gender). Since fantasy is not affected by a partner’s opinion or any fear of social reprisal, people are free to imagine behaviors they would never act out in real life. In general, men’s fantasies tend to be less plausible and often more taboo than women’s fantasies. Of course it goes without saying that many women’s fantasies are romantic in nature, but it is also true that women enjoy imagining themselves behaving in aggressively sexual ways.

Many studies have been done analyzing the sexual fantasies of men and women, most commonly through anonymous interviews or anonymous written narratives. Anonymity is a key factor in allowing people to feel comfortable exploring what might seem like extreme or bizarre behavior under ordinary circumstances. But in having no fear of judgment, people can let their minds wander and their fantasies can become very explicit and detailed.

One study mentioned at www.healthyplace.com suggests that a number of themes are common in sexual fantasies and that some are gender-specific.

By far the most common fantasy enjoyed by men was that of group sex or having sex with two or more women at the same time. (This will come as no surprise to those of who have been with men who keep hinting about “three-ways” with your friends.) Twice as many men as women who were surveyed reported having this fantasy.

The next most common fantasy involves voyeuristic or fetishistic elements. In other words, watching or being watched; or some unusual costume, prop or behavior that takes the fantasy out of the realm of “normal” sex (whatever that is). Among men and women, this type of fantasy was more than twice as common among men than women. This is not surprising given that most erotic or pornographic literature portrays women in costume: lacy lingerie, garter belts and black fishnet stockings, leather, or clothing that suggests a particular occupation or role (like a nurse, schoolgirl, vampire, or police woman). As an interesting aside, visual and fetish elements are also common in male homosexual porn and erotica: obviously this type of literature plays upon the common fantasies of its audience.

Another characteristic more common to male sexual fantasies is the specific description of a woman’s appearance: age, hair color, breasts, and specifics about her body and face. For some reason women’s fantasies about men do not tend to be as descriptive (maybe because we also prefer the romance of doing it in the dark?); but this also speaks to the more visual content of male fantasies. Female sexual fantasies are more narrative: they often contain elaborate descriptions of a specific setting or place, like the beach or a mountain cabin, and often contain a “plot”, whereas men can conjure up a specific face and body and not need too much more to get off on.

Perhaps not surprisingly, women’s fantasies are more likely to involve their current partner or men they have been intimate with, whereas men tend to fantasize about strangers or acquaintances most often. This is not to say that women do not fantasize about having sex with strangers, just that it is far less common than it is with men. These sorts of fantasies address our desire to be seductive and attractive to others, and also allow us to “live dangerously” by throwing ourselves into an unfamiliar intimate situation with someone we know little to nothing about. For men, fantasizing about an acquaintance allows them to explore a latent attraction without the repercussions such a liaison might bring about in “real life.” For women, this sort of fantasy allows us to engage in what would normally be seen as very risky or harmful behavior.

Which brings us to another area often explored in fantasy: the use of force, or rape fantasies. This is actually more common among women than men: according to the results of the study mentioned, women fantasize more about being forced by men to have sex, than men fantasize about forcing a woman. Some men fantasize about being “raped” by a woman or women, or about being completely sexually submissive. (Sado-masochistic fantasies were next on the list for frequency among men and women–again, men had them more often than women). Discussing or admitting such fantasies can be controversial. In my work as a dispatcher for a phone sex company some years ago, the employees talked about the fact that some men ask before they begin the phone call if there is a girl available who would be willing to do a rape fantasy. Apparently they asked first because they had run into difficulty just letting this arise spontaneously during the call.

One unexpected finding is that there is a big difference in how men and women translate fantasy into reality. For men, the possibility of acting upon any of their fantasies was seen as very remote. But for women, there was very little difference between the idea of imagining a behavior and performing it. Also, men who fantasized about having sex with lots of different women were usually single and unattached, or not having very regular sex. In other words, the more active fantasy life indicated a less active sex life. But for women, their fantasies tended to be more frequent and detailed if they were already in a satisfying sexual relationship.

In general, men’s sexual fantasies are more “active” than women’s, whose fantasies tend to be “passive.” In other words, in their fantasies, men like to see themselves doing things, while women like to have things done to them. But it is also interesting that women tend to create a more complete “picture” in their fantasies, creating detailed settings and scenarios; whereas for men, they tend to only need a detailed picture of the person or persons. This may be related to why men tend to prefer visual forms of erotica and porn, and women prefer verbal/written erotica and porn.

If you have ever wondered what your partner fantasizes about, or how your sexual fantasies differ from those of other women, maybe some of these findings have given you something to think, or fantasize, about…

So there you have it! Once again I have to say just how much I love the fact that this site is obviously made by females who understand that the ideal porn site for women must contain more than just porn in it. From my own experiences I would have to agree with the article but feel free to leave me comments and tell me if you agree or disagree!

My man and I have made a real effort recently to slow things down in the bedroom. We had noticed that the romance had seemed to have somehow just completely slipped away from us and so it was either that we were going to give in to the lack of romantic feelings in our relationship or try to rebuilt that fire which once burned so bright. One trick that we started to do was to keep our underwear on for as long as possible before having sex. We will just lie together, teasing each other with licks, caresses and kisses until we are both unable to stand it any longer. It reminds me a lot of when we were teenagers and would just make out for hours. Although we don’t do this for hours, we did notice the same types of feelings coming back to us as when we were young. Even when our underclothes come off, we do not proceed directly into the horizontal tango! Instead we enjoy each others bodies as much as we can.  So my advice to you is that if you are going to rush around, let yourself and your lover at least enjoy a bedroom where time is meaningless. Slow things down together, really take the time to enjoy the pleasure and ecstacy that are you giving each other.

“Need some creative ideas for keeping things lively between you and your man? Try some of these rituals we have created specially for you, to keep that romantic spark alive! A ritual simply means placing special importance upon an activity, planning it carefully and performing it with awareness and intention. Some of the everyday activities you thought very dull can be ritualized to make them special, and help you both share some more romance in your relationship. There are rituals involving food, bathing, and foreplay-try them all! (Next Ten: Rituals for Social Situations!)

1. Shopping for that Romantic Dinner Together: Sure, you can prepare that decadent meal for him, but what if you both do the shopping together? Hint: Specialty stores or farmers’ markets are sexier than the supermarket. You can gaze at each other suggestively over the strawberries and oysters and chocolate. Whisper in his ear as he is deliberating over red or white wine—speaking some sexy French or Italian will help him decide.

2. Preparing that Romantic Dinner Together: Careful, sometimes things in the kitchen can heat up to such a degree that you forget all about dinner! Stand behind him and caress him as he’s grilling the steaks. Make the soufflé naked with just an apron and high heels. Get him to lick the Bernaise sauce off your fingers. Smear some lemon frosting on his neck and kiss it off.

3. Eating that Romantic Dinner Together: Once everything is prepared, be sure to dress for dinner! Wear a sexy silk slip or a kimono that falls open easily, to reveal his favorite undergarments (those mesh tap pants, or black garter and stockings). Make sure there are candles for ambient lighting and sexy music.

4. Postponing that Romantic Dessert Together: Make your meal leisurely. When the food’s done, have a seat with your after-dinner brandy or coffee. Now’s the time for loving conversation, or just some quiet time listening to music or maybe watching an erotic video. Let him know dessert won’t be ready for a while…hint, hint.

5. Bringing that Romantic Dessert to Bed when You’re Ready: Nothing like a nice treat when you’ve burned off some calories in bed! Bring one serving with two spoons or forks and feed each other…

6. Bubble Bath for Two: Okay your man may be a shower guy, but this might convert him. Make sure the bathroom is clean and free of clutter (maybe you can even get him to help you with this part!) and get your supplies ready beforehand. You will need: candles, fluffy towels, a nice robe for each of you, bubble bath (Lush has some great bubble bars) and grooming products (see #7 and 8). Run the bath and let him know you expect him to join you in a few minutes. He’ll love the sight of you amid those bubbles, face flushed, waiting for him!

7. During-Bath Grooming: Animals groom each other, why not people? Have some grooming products handy to share this nice intimate ritual. Wash his hair and give him a nice scalp massage while you’re at it. A plastic cup or bowl is handy for rinsing. Or you can help each other smooth on face masks and relax while they do their work. Plus: your man’s skin will look great afterwards! Maybe one or both of you has a shaving fantasy—now’s the time to help each other out! Make sure you have fresh disposable razors and some luscious shaving soap.

8. After-Bath Grooming: Maybe you and your man don’t even know each other’s after-bath routine. Here’s a fun way to find out. Invite your man to apply your lotion or powder or conditioner for you. Offer to do the same for him. Wrap up in some nice fluffy robes and lounge around for a few hours, or head straight to bed. Sleep naked for a change, if you don’t usually.

9. Ritual Massage: Make that backrub or footrub into something special. Light candles and lay out special oils or lotions. Make sure you create a comfortable place for your man to lie down. Play soothing (but sexy) music. Light incense or use scented candles: something subtle and arousing like sandalwood, patchouli or vanilla. Encourage him to get into loose, comfortable clothing, or to get undressed and put a robe on. When the massage is over, make sure there is a hot or cool drink on hand. Your man may feel very relaxed, or very aroused, depending on his mood and what kind of massage you give—be prepared to go with the flow!

10. Ritual Foot Bath/Foot Rub: Our feet take so much punishment, there is nothing like a nice foot rub to rejuvenate. Bathing the feet is a tradition that goes back to ancient Egypt. It’s so decadent, you’ll want to try this ritual often! Have two plastic or metal bowls ready; one will be filled with hot water, one with cool. Wash your man’s feet one at a time in the hot water with soap. Then rinse them in the cool water. This is good for circulation and energy. Then dry them off gently and rub lotion or cologne on them. Ahhh…”

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So what I came to realize with a lot of my friends is that they would stay with these no good men for reasons unknown to me. Only later on did I figure out what all of these bad relationships had in common. They all involved men who would go down on their partners all the time and trully not want anything in return. Is this such a rare thing that when we find a man like this, it is hard to let him go regardless if he is really no good for us? Having been there myself, I would have to say yes. Maybe the men reading this should try to be more loving with their partners,  I guarantee it will make your relationship better.

If you cannot give oral pleasure to your loved one without getting an erection, then maybe go to the bathroom and pleasure yourself before you decide to give her a treat. Because nothing makes us fee more obliged to return the favor than a rock hard cock pressing against us.